Be in the here and now

Be in the here and now

  In my last blog I talked about using your surroundings to ground you in the present and to notice the reality of where you are – in an attempt to manage fear and anxiety.  We can also use our mind to alleviate anxiety and lack of confidence by being aware...
Look Around You

Look Around You

  When we lack confidence or are fearful, we can become ‘ungrounded’ and ‘in our head’ dealing with the negative emotions and trying to work out a situation mentally.  One of the ways we can ‘ground ourselves’ to lessen the anxiety is to breathe as discussed...
The Common Outcome of Common Sense

The Common Outcome of Common Sense

Do you make common sense your central thesis during your most critical moments in life? If you’ve ever wondered why your life is so difficult, it’s probably because you’re relying too much on common sense. When someone injects “just use common...
Fear or Excitement

Fear or Excitement

Believe it or not, anxiety is a normal aspect of everyday life.  In this video I show you how anxiety is the mental state that gets you to an appointment on time and enables you to remember all the things you have to do. It’s a state which keeps you alert and able to...